Could encouraging self-control be setting kids up for a life of regret?

By Gordon Cairns
Community contribution / November 28, 2018

In less enlightened times, control was something which was externally imposed on children in the classroom and at home through a brutal combination of raised voices, unsuppressed anger and physical violence.

Suitably cowed, children turned into adults willing to accept being cannon fodder in battle, or factory stooges who would endure appalling ...

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Could encouraging self-control be setting kids up for a life of regret?

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