How to Transform a Bully, Part Three – What to do if bullying becomes a habit

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By Darren Stevenson
Community contribution / May 13, 2015

In the last article in this bullying series, Darren Stevenson discussed that research has shown early intervention in bullying situations is vital to better outcomes for all children, including the bully. But what if bullying has been allowed to become entrenched in the community? How do we break the habit once bullying behaviour has been learned and deemed acceptable.

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Darren Stevenson is the founder and MD of Extend Before and After School Care, a nation-wide provider of outside school hours care services for children. Established in 2002, Extend's goal has always been to enrich the lives of children and support families. Darren has driven this philosophy throughout Extend, and shared his vision as a primary and secondary school teacher, university lecturer and industry leader and innovator. Extend partners with over 100 school communities and educates and cares for over 12,000 children.

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